Help Yourself
Monday, March 31st, 2008One of the central themes of the book “God Wants You Dead” that Paul and I wrote, concerns the conflict between new medical technology and the belief in GOD and a promised afterlife. This is probably why a friend of mine who has read the book (or at least skimmed it - I’m not sure anyone has actually read the whole thing yet ;-) forwarded this article to me:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080327/ap_on_re_us/daughter_s_death_prayer
It’s about a young girl who recently died from a very treatable condition because her parents chose to pray for her to get better rather than take her to a doctor.
While this is a tragedy, and certainly no laughing matter, it reminds me of an old joke:
A man is caught in a flood and ends up sitting on the roof of his house.
Eventually a boat comes along and he is offered a ride to dry land, but he replies “Thanks, but I have faith that GOD will save me.” The boat leaves to rescue others.
The water rises higher and another boat comes along. Again the man rejects the offer of aid saying “I have faith that GOD will save me,” and that boat also leaves to rescue others.
The water rises to the point that the man is barely able to stay on the roof, clinging to his chimney. A helicopter flies overhead and lowers down a ladder, but the man again insists “I have faith that GOD will save me,” and does not climb the ladder.
Finally the man is swept away by the flood waters and drowns. When he gets to heaven he confronts GOD and asks “I had faith! Why didn’t you save me?”
To which GOD replies “I don’t know what more you wanted - I sent you two boats and a helicopter.”
The deaths of those who, because of their faith, refuse to accept physical help are easy to notice and criticize, but there is almost certainly a lot more damage that happens for similar reasons but goes unnoticed. Whether it is a belief in mind over matter, spiritual energy, or prayer to GOD or gods, any sort of appeal to the metaphysical can be harmful. How many people die because they wait too long to get that lump looked at by a doctor, thinking that if they refuse to acknowledge it as a real problem it will magically go away on its own?
And this is not just a problem with medical issues. How many people wait for the right opportunity to present itself in life rather than going out and making things happen for themselves? Belief in destiny can certainly energize people, but it can also hold people back until “the signs are right,” which they might never be.
If you believe in the help and guidance of some Higher Power or have faith in some cosmic destiny, it removes from you a lot of the responsibility for the way things actually turn out. And perhaps that makes the world feel easier to cope with. But there is good reason to believe that choosing to rely on such things can cost you a lot of value in situations that you could have made better if you had only chosen to take responsibility for the direction of your own life.
There is no real evidence for anything beyond the physical here and now. There might or might not exist a benevolent creator of the universe. But even if GOD does exist, there is no reason to believe that HE ever intervenes in the physical world at all, and certainly a lot of reason to believe that HE does not - or only does so in very very rare circumstances.
Think about it this way: Praying to GOD - asking that he should cause reality to deviate from the course of events that it would otherwise follow, based on the established physical laws of the universe - is like asking HIM to cheat - asking him to break the rules HE created.
Do you have enough integrity not to cheat when you play Solitaire? Even if you don’t, GOD probably does…
Or putting this all yet another way: “The Lord helps those who help themselves.”